September 7, 2012 [MTC]


September 7, 2012

Dear Family,

This week has gone amazingly!  I'm so grateful for that and I know that your prayers on my behalf have definitely had an influence on this.

I'm so excited to go to the temple today.  The Provo Temple is so so pretty!  I love its unique design.  Its just stunning especially on a bright sunny day when the temple and the grounds surrounding the temple are just so vibrantly full of color.  It is beautiful.

Mom, regarding your question about things I, and my companion, might like to receive in a care package, I know we could use some sweet pens.  I'm not really sure what other supplies would be nice to have, but anything would be fun.  If you choose to send food though, please don't send a ton.  We have food overload here.  But I definitely do miss homemade goodies and even food.  I really miss all the fresh fruits and vegetables we always had at home.  They always have fruit and salads and other cooked veggies in the cafeteria, but they don't even come close to comparing to what I'm used to.  They are just icky in comparison to the salads and fruit that my mom spoils me with.  Oh! one thing I need is hair gel.  I needed a haircut this week, but the signups filled up too fast for my p-day.  So now I get to wait 'til next Friday.  So could you send me that hair gel I pretty much never used?  I didn't think I was going to need it on the mission since I never used it at home, but I'm realizing that maybe I should have brought that to help keep the hair lookin' missionary sharp for longer.  It isn't a problem yet, but our Branch Presidency has talked to several Elders in our zone about their need to get haircuts.  And mine isn't too far behind theirs so I wouldn't be surprised if I receive the same haircut counsel.  So that hair gel will be really nice when I'm getting to the point where I'm in need of a haircut but have to wait 'til p-day.  Obviously my hair isn't actually LONG.  Nobody has long hair here in the MTC (other than sister missionaries).  I guess it's more of a matter of how stunningly sharp I need to look.

Hmmm, I guess I haven't really given you a ton of ideas regarding things to put in that care package.  I have just kinda rambled on...oops.  I guess anything would be fun though.  Sorry I'm not much help.  If I come up with anything, I'll let you know...but in reality anything you want to send me would be so fun!  So, I will just wait and be surprised!

Elder M and I are getting much closer as a companionship.  There are a few times where he just kinda disappears on me, and that's always weird cuz we are supposed to stay in sight and sound of each other, but I'm usually able to find him decently quickly.  One time, while I went back to the mailroom, (the District Leader's companion is supposed to wait outside the door so it doesn't get too crowded in the mailroom) by the time I had come out of the mailroom, there was no companion waiting for me.  I assumed he had gone into the bathroom, so I stood there waiting for about fifteen minutes.  When I finally realized that he was not going to be coming out of the bathroom, due to the fact he wasn't in there, I decided to go back to our dorm room to look for him there.  And that was indeed where I found him.  Things like this happen occasionally and its usually kinda funny to me because while I'm trying to find him, I walk next to other random companionships so I don't get caught by someone who wants to know why I'm not with my companion.  So that's always interesting, but I try to turn it into a joke rather than concern myself over it.  After all, I definitely can understand where he is coming from.  I miss being able to just have some Ben time where I don't have a companion sitting or walking right next to me.  And, I especially miss my driving Ben time.  I always got lots of sweet think time in the car.

Regarding your question, yes, our new roommates are awesome!  They are German speaking Elders and way nice and super obedient.  We go moved to a new room though today.  Now that the new dorms are finished, they are having four Elders per room rather than six so it's nice having a bit more space.

Oh!  I KNOW what I would like in that package.  But this one is just for me.  Could you send me some family pictures?  Thanks, that would be great.  Maybe even put them in a sweet picture frame that holds several pictures?

Well, it's about time for me to get ready to go to the temple.  I love you all!  Thanks for the letters.  I loved them.  I love hearing from home.  I'm learning lots and doing well.  The MTC will be the most personally demanding class/course I have ever taken, but I can already see it will be one of the most rewarding.  I love you, my family.  Remember when I used to be able to pick my cell phone up and call or send a quick text home?  I miss that.  But unlike college life, mission life doesn't have that as part of the program.  But that's OK.  Email, paper and pen, are my new favorite methods of communication.

Much love from your Missionary,

Elder Ostler

A quick P.S. from your indecisive son:  I'm actually having second thoughts about having goodies/treats sent.  Even though there is a food overload here, I would definitely love some more delicious treats in my life...  If I'm lucky, I'll be able to work off the MTC 15 in the field.  Adios for now!  I was trying to be "smart/healthy" by halfheartedly saying I didn't really need them, but now I'm not feeling so pleased with that healthy attempt.